Hello, I would try to be short and precise.
I am 22.
I am not proud but I was spectacular scholar since my school days and I am a successful entrepreneur now.
Back in 2000, when I was in 7th grade, this girl came and joined our school. She came first in class and I came second. We used to exchange notes and talk ( only and only related to studies and nothing else ).
Then next year to impress her, I came first and she became second. However, her father got posted to another city( she has to go with her family) and I was out of touch to her completely. But I swear, I never had even a thought of any other girl there on.
Then, after 3 yrs in 2005, I joined her school in 12th grade and we didn’t had much conversation this time. We didn’t used to exchange notes this time. However, I perfectly no that she didn’t had any boyfriends during this till now.
In India, IITs are best colleges and once this girl told me that from our class, only I have a capability to join that college. I studied one year ( 2006-2007 ) and got 2245 rank amongst above quarter million competitors. By the way, when I was preparing for my exams of IIT, I proposed her on phone and she bluntly rejected, saying that she has responsibilities of her parents.
She joined her regional engineering college.
Now the real trouble starts. She was going to get her job by 2010 and I was going to grad out in 2012. I felt that in the mean time, she would develop relationship with other guy and I cannot live without her.
I made up my mind that in order to get her, I need to achieve something really great to impress her and also to get out of this college at the earliest. Since 2007 to 2009 I working day in and out, like sleeping 4 hours a day, doing my part time forex trading work and studying to retain my 100% scholarship ( my father is not that good financially ). Eventually I am now a fund manager and manage about 0,000 from my 30 clients in India and abroad and I earn like 00 to 00 monthly ( for Indians and that too of my age, that’s really big figure).
I did all this to win that girl. However, this girl had one boyfriend, with whom she had break up and now have a new boyfriend.
I don’t know what to do. One of her friend told me that she has grown into a mean girl and her criteria of selecting boys is money oriented. She had one boyfriend with whom she had breakup and now has another boyfriend.
I have earned somewhere like ,000 from my last 2 years of effort and financially very stable. I will drop the IIT ( tough decision because IITians get k jobs very easily) Also, I have planned to open my company in her city. I want to say THIS IS HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU. I CAN DO ANYTHING FOR YOU AND WHATEVER I HAVE DONE THIS FAR IS FOR YOU.
Also, I have enough money earned from my hard work that I can provide luxurious life to her and her family and "I have responsibilities" thing is out of question.
How should I proceed to her? Because this would be my second proposal to her. Unlike her, I never had any girl friend ( even though I received proposals from 5 girls in my college, I credit that to my good achievements as an entrepreneur ). I love her so so so much. I cannot live without her. That’s why I am doing all this to win her heart.
Please please please help me. I am going to move out to her city in July 2009. So please help.
* I didn’t smoke or drink. There was and the is no other girl in my life.
@ Gracious,
I feel that I have worked hard and achieved what all just because of her being in my mind. So, no way intoxicated my life 
No offense and I thank you for your opinion
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Tickles 18th March 2010
Congratulations on all your successes, it sounds to me that you have worked very hard to get where you are in life.
In regards to this girl, you say you love her however it’s not clear to me that you know her very well at all. You have had some bad things about her going after men with money and although you don’t know if that is true or not, she does have a boyfriend at the moment. Instead of proposing to her, why don’t you get back in touch with her and get to know her as a good friend. That way you will know what she is like.
Since she has a boyfriend already, she would not be able to give you any commitment. If in the future things do not work out with her and her boyfriend then you will be a friend to her and know if you like her more than that and she likes you, then maybe you can date. In time you can decide whether or not to propose. If you do, then you will know what she is like by your own judgement. If not, then you can remain good friends and you can move on.
However in the meantime, since she is with someone else, maybe you could consider your other options? There are plenty of nice, genuine and intelligant girls out there. Get to know other girls and let them know you (perhaps those who don’t know of your fortune) so you can be more confident that it is not your wealth that they are more interested in. Eventually, be it that girl you love or someone else, you will meet somebody.
Good luck with whatever you decide to do.
Holly 18th March 2010
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Gracious 18th March 2010
Don’t write too many things to confused yourself.
She really doesn’t worth your time buddy.
And she’s not available as well.
Can’t you aim for someone else ?
This girl had intoxicated you all your life.
Don’t try to mess around with her.
If she ” HAD ” loved you before and she shifted,
these I can understand, but she don’t even love you,
so why place all your important time for her ?
hot_ef 18th March 2010
Dude, sounds like you love her. But she doesn’t sound like a nice person if she only goes with guys for the $ factor.
Let her go and find yourself a real woman……